My dad doesn’t want to transfer away from his house, however it’s time for him to transfer in with my sibling or me, or he has to go to live at home.
My dad saw a couple of weeks ago plus since then I have been dealing with social services. Social services won’t let my dad go back to his home unless there is someone there to take care of him at all times. My long term spouse plus I can’t take care of my dad when we have three children at home. Our only occasion is to bring my dad to live with us. My dad doesn’t want to transfer away from home, even though I told him the circumstances. He knows that he has to live with me plus my spouse or go to a retirement home. My dad has been living in that property for 50 years. He recently updated the furnace. That was the excuse my Dad tried to give. He told me that he paid for a brand new furnace plus he wasn’t going to transfer out of the property until the furnace was fully paid for. I told my dad that he was being ridiculous. It didn’t matter if the furnace was new or not, because the fact of that matter was that my dad could not live in that property anymore. Wife and I are doing everything we can to make sure that my dad will be comfortable with us. My great friend and I even hired a local contractor to put a small bathroom in the kitchen so my dad does not have to share with the kids.